Spiritual Child Abuse

A child has a right to grow up in a home where he is loved, God is honored, and the Bible taught. He has a right to be assured that Jesus loves him, that his sins can be forgiven, that he can go to heaven when he dies. The spiritual dimension is necessary to balance emotional, mental, and physical needs. While physical abuse affects a child for his earthly lifetime, spiritual abuse carries eternal consequences.

"And whosoever shall offend one of these little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea." Mark 9:42

Loves Me; Loves Me Not?

What is true love? According to I Corinthians 13, Love isn’t just sweet words and eloquent speech; nor great insight, knowledge, or faith. It’s not simply benevolence or even martyrdom. Love is long suffering and kind. It is not jealous nor egotistical. It doesn’t pout. Love doesn’t behave inappropriately nor out of lust. It isn’t quick to take offence nor imagine evil. Love doesn’t rejoice in nor try to do wrong, but is happy to find and live in truth. Love bears whatever it needs to, endures what it must, and doesn’t lose faith. Love never fails!

Family Time with God

I believe having family devotions is the most important thing you can do to strengthen your family. An old-time preacher once said, "A child can go to hell over the wall of family altar, but it is awfully hard for him to." This time together helps iron out all the hurts, anger, frustrations, and misunderstandings the day has brought to each family member. It’s a time to draw close to God and each other. It’s a bond your children will continue to draw strength from, even when they are adults. "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6

How Children Learn

Children don’t get it all at once, and neither do we. The Bible isn’t just to be read during family devotions, then forgotten for another 23 hours. We make its precepts relevant in our lives when we practice them throughout the day. Life situations are ideal teaching tools to convey biblical concepts to our children, as most lessons that stick are better "caught" than just "taught." A father teaches honesty when he returns the extra $10 the cashier gave him by mistake. He can reinforce the lesson by discussing it with the child, then reading a Bible verse that teaches honesty. "But the word of the Lord was unto them precept upon precept, precept upon precept; line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little…" Isaiah 28:13

Family Altar - When, Where?

God commands us to teach our children the right paths, to teach them in the morning, in the evening, and at night, while we are lying down, sitting up, eating, and busy about our day. Impossible? Not really. We simply don’t recognize many of our daily situations as ready-made opportunities. Teach God’s provision when you eat; his faithfulness when you see a rainbow; that he answers prayer when you pay a bill you didn’t think would get paid. "And thou shalt teach them (God’s words) diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." Deut. 6:7

Pope John Paul II

"As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live." --Pope John Paul II

Importance of Family

"Religion was first hatched in families, and there the devil seeketh to crush it…If [the devil] can subvert families, other societies and communities will not long flourish and subsist with any power and vigor; for there is the stock from whence they are supplied both for the present and future."

--Thomas Manton, 17th century minister

The Love Chapter

I Corinthians 13 is the "Love Chapter" of the Bible. Read it with your mate and children often. Heeding its advice will take care of most any problem in your home.

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. Charity never faileth.... (from I Cor. 13)

Plan It On Purpose

Family Altar doesn’t come naturally. You have to plan it on purpose. The cares of life will suck that precious time right away from you if you don’t guard it carefully. Some days you will have more time than others, but the very least should be to read or quote some scripture and have a prayer together. This can be done in five minutes or less. MAKE the time! "And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve ... but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." Joshua 24:15